Is it me or is it just becoming âthe normâ that family loyalty doesnât exist anymore.
Admittedly there is quite a large age span in our family but an immediate (close) family member is getting married (mid 30s). Although my side of the family my late wife and I filled a hole left by an absent abusive parent. We paid for private school for 7 years, took them ski-ing every winter including New Zealand and USA. Included them for 10+ years in our summer holidays, planned Christmas around them so they never missed out.
We never expected anything in return except a thank you and good manners. Just found out the wedding is beginning of August and not invited. I get it is their choice but a simple letter or phone call would have been nice. My wife would have been devastated. We stayed close and organised their 30th birthday party so it isnât as if we drifted or fell out.
Admittedly there is quite a large age span in our family but an immediate (close) family member is getting married (mid 30s). Although my side of the family my late wife and I filled a hole left by an absent abusive parent. We paid for private school for 7 years, took them ski-ing every winter including New Zealand and USA. Included them for 10+ years in our summer holidays, planned Christmas around them so they never missed out.
We never expected anything in return except a thank you and good manners. Just found out the wedding is beginning of August and not invited. I get it is their choice but a simple letter or phone call would have been nice. My wife would have been devastated. We stayed close and organised their 30th birthday party so it isnât as if we drifted or fell out.