slowguy wrote:
A person who chooses a high profile profession, and who chooses to take a stand for their beliefs even if unpopular with some segment of society, should definitely manage their expectations about what might follow. That isn't the same as being at fault or responsible for those events.
I'll start with this quote because I think you're leaving out some context and those two things aren't mutually exclusive. When the entire reason the consequences exist is because the person did something wrong (in her case broke the law) they are 100% at fault. I'm not sure why this is getting glossed over. If she didn't travel to Russia with marijuana then the rest simply doesn't follow. The consequences don't exist because she isn't in jail and she doesn't end up a political pawn traded for a Russian criminal that many people opposed. That chain of events doesn't happen.
slowguy wrote:
I think some context would be useful.
yeeper wrote:
She chose to bring drugs to Russia and break the law
slowguy wrote:
Really? She seems to have inadvertently brought 2 vape cartridges with cannabis oil in them to Russia. She didn't "chose" to bring "drugs" into Russia except insofar as she chose not to carefully screen her bags for anything that might get her in trouble.
She packed her own bag. She said she packed them by accident. We can circle the wagons there but I don't think we'll get anywhere. We both agree she didn't bring them with ill-intentions. We disagree with the level of responsibility she has for them being in her bag. Even though for anyone who has traveled you are directly responsible for everything in your baggage. See quotes below regarding the bullets in luggage.
slowguy wrote:
Yes, she has chosen to work in a high profile job. That's doesn't make her at fault for the poor behavior of members of the public.
Yes, she chose to ask her government for help when she was unlawfully detained by an adversarial foreign power. That doesn't make her at fault for the poor behavior of members of the public.
Yes, she chose to lawfully exercise her right to peaceful protest, along with a huge number of other Americans. Again, not justification for harassment by members of the public.
I agree with you here. I've said many times that the harassment isn't ok. I also never said exercising her rights should justify the harassment. What I said was that those actions, while allowed, will piss of a certain subset of individuals. And when that happens they're just waiting for an opportunity to pounce. You can't go swimming in florida and then get pissed off because of the gators. She was extremely careless and broke a major law in a country that is not a friend to us.
slowguy wrote:
Insofar as everyone should understand the likely series of events that might come after their chosen actions, she is responsible for choosing to live the life she has lived. That doesn't mean that she is fully responsible for the bad behavior of other people.
She is 100% responsible for putting herself in the position to be a target for those kind of people. Because what you're saying isn't the same; it's not just about her being responsible for the bad behavior of other people. It's not like I'm claiming she caused other people to bring drugs places by her incident. That would be unfairly placing responsibility on her for others' behavior. What I'm saying is that She painted a target on herself with her actions. She wasn't careful enough and thats the ballgame. We live in a world where the media are allowed to be savages and the paparazzi are allowed to set the tone for high profile individuals. If a celeb fucks up and attracts the attention of less than desirable "media" hacks then thats on them. The media exits and waits salivating for these opportunities. The target on her back is no one else's fault but her own.
slowguy wrote:
A woman who chooses to wear a sexy dress and walk in a bad part of town in the middle of the night isn't "fully responsible" if she is raped. She bears responsibility only for her own choices, not the choices of others. In Griner's case, it might seem to have been an even lesser degree of poor judgement. She was among a large number of other women players who played in Russia to supplement their WNBA (or pro league) income. It was pretty normalized. There hadn't been a big pattern of Russian security services harassing these players. That's part of why it garnered such attention. You described the Russian action previously as being "unreasonable." A person can really only be held "fully responsible" for the consequences they could reasonably have expected. Certainly nobody expected this set of actions from the Russian government. .
A grown woman unnecessarily walking through a bad part of town in the middle of the night is absolutely fully responsible for her actions. I'm not sure where we started to conflate victim blaming with personal responsibility. I can be responsible for putting myself in a dangerous situation even if nothing happens to me. I can make mistakes that increase risk to myself; whether something manifests or not is irrelevant. The consequences are still real and a result of poor choices.
A woman walking through a bad part of town in the middle of the night unnecessarily is being an irresponsible dumbass. If my daughter is allergic to bees and I bring her to play near a bee hive and something happens then its my fault because I'm an irresponsible dumbass. If I leave my car running in my driveway to run in and get something I left I'm not a dumbass. But if I leave it running when theres a few suspicious people hanging out in the street and theres been a string of car thefts then I'm an irresponsible dumbass and its my fault for letting the car gets jacked. If I go for a run at noon on a commonly used route no issues. If I decide to go run a dangerous route in the middle of the night when the news has warned of muggings and attacks then its absolutely my fault and I'm an absolute certifiable dumbass. And if someone isn't responsible enough to leave the illegal drugs back home then they are also fully responsible for the consequences.
Simply because someone committed a crime against you doesn't mean you can't bear full responsibility for putting yourself in that situation. And that doesn't absolve the person from their wrongs either. These concepts are not mutually exclusive. And this is exactly how I'm going to raise my daughter. I'm not saying you can be found legally liable but in terms of common sense and the reality of the world, individuals are accountable for their own actions. And the more high profile you are, the more scrutiny there will be and invariably the more undesirable consequences there will be. Every high profile person should know this. And I'm not sure why this position is so difficult to understand.
In the T&C thread you said it isn't a case of one of the other owning 100% of the blame for everything. Even though thats with respect to how it got through security I personally disagree. And while I didn't chime in on that thread TSA's goal is 100% accuracy but its not always realistic. I would say that a traveler knowing exactly whats in or not in their own bag is 100% realistic especially WRT their destination's rules.
You said this about Griner:
slowguy wrote:
It continues to astound me that any American would choose to go to Russia to work, outside of things like embassy work. Especially higher profile work like professional sports. You’re just asking to get fucked with.
So you already painted a picture acknowledging that she was stupidly putting herself in a position to get fucked with and part of that was because of her high profile job.
You also said this:
slowguy wrote:
The traveler is certainly responsible for packing his own bags and making sure he know what he can or can't take into or out of his destination country. ... Bottom line for me, is that if you own a firearm you own primary responsibility for keeping track of your weapon and ammunition.
So, bottom line for me is that if you elect to use drugs you own primary responsibility for keeping track of your drugs and knowing where you can and cannot use them. And for me primary responsibility means thats on you and its you're fault and your fault alone if you fuck that up. And the more high profile you are, the more attention you can expect, warranted or not.
Its late for me and I tried to address everything as best as I could clearly and politely. Maybe we simply disagree on level of responsibility even though others may be in in wrong as well. I simply don't see how someone can't be directly responsible if their actions and their actions alone set the ball in motion.
Thanks for the time to respond.